Since our friends who enjoy conventional sex* are called "Vanilla," I propose that we Spankophiles now refer to ourselves as--
"Strawberry!"
For rather obvious reasons.
Besides, the term "Strawberry" easily continues the ice cream metaphor!
You could put up icons like this in mainstream social media
and proclaim, "I'm very Strawberry!"
I think that would be more easily understood than "I'm very cherry!"
Not to disparage cherries, but I personally like strawberries much, much better.
Why, there would be a lot of cute and subtle ways you could announce your predilections and proclivities to the world!
And with the pleasantly homey association, the world at large would be less apt to balk! In fact, they might even be inclined to grin and wink and think, "Aw, look at her adorable strawberry hiney!!"
So whaddaya think?
"Ah, the Strawberries~!!"
*By the by, is there really and truly any such thing as "Normal Sex?"
Isn't that an oxymoron?
My laundry is now 30% brighter since I began using Oxymoron!